God’s timing is perfect. Most (all?) people view life through a self-centered lens. As humans, that’s just naturally the way we were designed. “What am I going to do today? How does this make me feel? How does ___ affect me?”
I would imagine very few people are naturally inclined to think about others first. Sure, many people think about others, but probably not first. And for the most part, I think that’s okay. The person I am primarily responsible for is me (We also do need to work on having a healthy concern for looking out for others as well. Certainly we can become too self-focused and simply be selfish).
This lens through which we view reality can sometimes cause us to miss out on seeing how God’s hand is weaving our life and story into others’ lives and stories. Because we are not all-knowing, we can’t fully see how every person’s life intersects with the rest of the world. But even though we don’t notice it, it is happening. If we could see how our life is fitting into God’s purposes and plans across the globe and also in our immediate vicinity, we would be less inclined to question why things we want to happen, have not yet happened. We would be less prone to complaining when something that we view as ‘good’ has not yet come about.
God’s timing is perfect.
God may be working in a way in someone else’s life, that will cause what you hope to happen to be more fruitful and even more enjoyable, at a different time than you were originally hoping. God may be doing things that you have no idea about, or are too stubborn to notice, that by waiting, will make things much better.
Our individual lives and stories play just a small role in God’s grand story of the universe. And yet, He cares more about our individual lives and stories than we often care to notice. We’re usually more concerned about why I haven’t had my way, that we don’t appreciate everything that has gone far better than they would have gone if I had my way.
That, and the fact that God is more concerned with our holiness than our happiness.
“And He made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the Earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place, that they should seek God, in the hope that they might feel their way toward Him and find Him.”
Acts 17:26-27
“For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.”
Romans 5:6
“But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth His Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons.”
Galatians 4:4-5